When I woke up today, I suddenly realized that it may not be a blame. Then I tried to recall what happened during that moment. I should say thanks for the confession on the specific hurt I did unintentionally, rather than with a feeling of wronged, for why I couldn’t be believed and forgiven.
Maybe it’s natural as a human, when lots of efforts haven’t been acknowledged, only the long-time hurt feelings were mentioned, it would surely feel wronged.
However, from the other’s side, it was a long-standing hurt, as an unsolved feeling, which was vitally important. Totally understandable.
But I actually didn’t know if I should say them, or just keep them for myself.