On Relationship
Everything is about relationships, whether in virtual creation or in real life. How to deal with relationships is a comprehensive application.


Everything interacts with everything else, inside and outside, like tangled balls of yarn; it looks complicated and disordered from the outside. The essence of life is about how to find and deal with the relationships that are related to yourself, in dynamics, over time, and space. 

Everything is in flow, like clouds, never staying in the same position; human beings, too, are in a state of flow. Looks, thoughts, emotions. Defining and finding relationships, then trying to deal with them, by following your own flow; that’s a way to free thinking.

Cleaning a room is a typical process of reorganizing the relationships among objects and space, based upon one's own present inner flow. Daily look is a process of dealing with relationships among clothes and other accessories, based upon one’s today’s flow. 

Only when people have their own possessions of objects they have or like can the relationships be entirely based on their flow as an improvisation, to enjoy the moment, whether good or bad, all is satisfaction. It won’t happen when autonomy is given to the outside. 
For example, when eating in a restaurant, one concedes one's autonomy to the restaurant, which means the taste is totally from the restaurant. However, if one cook by themselves, they can control the taste based on their own flow. However, for the restaurant, it’s their opportunity for the flow. They have autonomy on the relationships among interior design, tableware, light, music, and the dish itself. Every party has its own autonomy to process variables it can control as a flow.

Therefore, in life, everything that can be defined as a variable can be considered in relationships; the rest is to combine them based upon your own needs through flow. 
Similarly, in creation, as well. And generally, software already defines variables. However, there is a difficulty: how to make it valuable, to help one gain fame, wealth, or self-achievements. 

When things are within themselves, it only examines the balance; when it comes to the outside with another as a whole, it tests how to keep balance in dynamics. If the balance fell, then there might be a conflict both within and with the outside. 

How to keep the balance in a short time, then there is rationality. Emotions are a flow, whereas rationality, as a structure, is more like statics, serving as a basis. 

Without rationality, the flow will be loose, unable to find a fulcrum. Without flow, the basement will be fixed, without energy.